The Gardner 7: Missing Grandpa Marve

Friday, September 26, 2008

Missing Grandpa Marve

Last week we went to St. George for the funeral of my dear Grandpa Jenkins. What a bitter sweet time it was. Every child, grandchild and great-grandchild was able to be at the funeral. We laughed and cried as we rememberred our Grandpa. The funeral service was a great tribute to the life he lived and the example he set for all of us. Although he could be awnry at times he was a great man and had great qualities that I hope to emulate. I have been so blessed to have known all of my grandparents. My two sweet grandmothers are still alive. I am grateful I have more time to spend with them. They are truly angels here on earth. I love them dearly and am honored to be a part of their posterity. Dan and I are also thrilled to announce we will be adding one more to their posterity in April.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...: You win the CUTEST blog award! I dont think I read the same directions because my blog is nowhere near as cute!!! I will have to go back an reread.

I am sorry about your gandpa ... I still miss my grandparents but feel, like you, that I was blessed to know them if even for a too short time.

Love you tons!!! Congrats on the new addition!; September 26, 2008 at 7:22 AM
Blass Family said...: I was going to comment on your blog the other day because I saw your link on the Polsons. You beat me to it. Thank you for the comment. and I am so sorry to hear about your lose. oh and congrats on the new addition!!!!; September 26, 2008 at 7:31 AM
Jaime said...: Isn't it interesting how funerals bring families together. It always becomes a great reminder of appreciating what and who we have, as we dwell on the passing of a loved one and what a wonderful life they had.

Congratulations on the new addition, you have such cute kids so I'm sure the next one will be just as adorable.; September 26, 2008 at 11:12 AM
Unknown said...: I was sorry to hear about the death of your grandpa. It is always hard because we have our hearts tied to them. Kris got word this morning that his grandma has been moved to a nursing home and that her health is deteriorating quickly. How blessed we are with knowledge of the plan of our father.
And a BIG Congrats on your new addition! YOu are one of the most AMAZING moms I know!!
Love ya; October 4, 2008 at 10:15 AM
Michelle Woodland said...: Hi Garnders!!!

Congrats on soon to being 7. That is wonderful. You have definitely added a few as well. We are living in OKC now. It is pretty nice. It was really hard for us to leave MS, but sometimes the Lord has other plans. Let's keep in touch.

Michelle; October 13, 2008 at 4:09 PM

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I am now a part of facebook. I was a little skeptical at first but I have become reacquainted with so many friends from High School and the Denver area that I am glad I joined. Two things that I have discovered. The first is that people's personalities don't really change that much.....just their looks. And two.....I am really grateful for the choices that I have made that have led me to this point in my life. The Lord truly takes care of me and my family and has given me more blessings and opportunities than I could have ever dreamed of. I married a man who is an amazing father and husband. He has taken care of us in every way possible. My children are beautiful and healthy. The Lord has been good to me.

Keith Urban and Carrie Underwood.....here I come!

Well, Valentine's Day was bigger than Christmas at the Gardner home this year, which wasn't too difficult considering Dan and I didn't get each other presents for Christmas. I surprised Dan with a digital picture frame at his office with some homemade chocolates (which were quite fabulous if I might say so myself.) And Dan surprised me with tickets to the Keith Urban and Carrie Underwood concert.....in Sacramento, California! That's right! We are flying out on Wednesday, March 12th to go to the concert that night and will fly home the next day. But it even gets better......my sister and her husband are going too! YIPPEEE! I am so excited and was quite shocked that Dan had already worked out a lot of the little details. What a man! I hope your Valentine's Day was full of love and "surprises!"

President Hinckley

There are some events in life that have had such an impact on me that I remember exactly what I was doing at the moment it happened. Sunday night when I was informed that President Hinckley had passed away will be one of those such events. I was in the hall reading to the children when Dan in a somewhat panicked voice beckoned me to come downstairs. When I got to the bottom of the stairs I glanced at the TV and there was a picture of President Hinckley with a caption stating that he had passed away earlier that evening. Immediately I called the children downstairs so they could see what was going on and then I called my family in Denver. After I got off of the phone I looked over to see an image I will never forget. Maddison was in her Daddy's arms and her eyes were filled with tears. The only Prophet that she had known in her life had just died. We called the children around us and offered a prayer of gratitude to our Heavenly Father for blessing us with such a wonderful Prophet. How truly grateful I am for President Hinckley's life and his powerful example of service and love. He will always be the "People's Prophet."

The book of the Gardner's, Month 12: day 24

1. And it came to pass on that day that there went out a decree from Shelene Gardner, that all in the Hal Gardner lineage in the region round about should gather at their Inn.
2. And Dan also went up, out of the city of Clearfield, into the city of Layton, (because he was of the lineage of Hal Gardner) to eat with his wife Deanna, and four children.
3. And all went to eat, every Gardner from their homes.
4. And it came to pass that when the family arrived they did find the table spread with a feast fit for a king.
5. And there was much food and rejoicing, and they ate and were filled.
6. And so it was that while they were there they portrayed the birth of our King....

Focus!

Thanksgiving was full of food, fun and family! Lots of family! It is so great to come together with cousins, aunts, uncles, grandpas and grandmas and feel as though you were never apart. What a great blessing family is in my life. I wish that I lived closer to more family members so I could feel of the great support and uplift they give to me daily!

My sister and I realized that this was once our family....but our parents were in our position and we were in our kids position. But we don't remember our parents ever looking so good at our age!

The children had a great time playing with their cousins. They were all immediate friends and had a hard time leaving the fun!

Well, another Thanksgiving and soon to be year will have come and gone again. This time of year is a great time of reflection for me. I love to look on the past year and see the Lord's involvement in our lives. He has been so good to us even though times haven't always been easy. I also look forward to the new year and the opportunity it brings for change. I have set some goals for myself and am hoping that this year I will have the self-discipline to focus on these goals and not get side tracked as I usually do! Every year we choose one word as a focus for change. In 2006 it was simplify! Last year it was plan! This year I think it will be focus!

If I had a wish for everyone this holiday season it would be to spend time with your loved ones making memories!